by BenjaminT » Fri Jul 10, 2015 11:54 pm
Maybe I'm one of those rude people. While I'd never act this way over some woman I'd idolized on campus, I could see myself doing something similar if I just happened to run across a friend I hadn't seen in a decade (and wasn't sure if I'd see again if I didn't speak up and say something). I'd probably apologize first and let them know I didn't want to interrupt and that I'd be brief but I still might speak up even if I saw that person speaking with a person of the opposite sex alone. And honestly, I'd feel horrible if I found out a dear friend of mine from ages ago saw me in a restaurant or coffee shop or something and didn't speak up simply because I was with a girl. Heck, I think I've been on dates with my wife where we were briefly interrupted by someone from our pasts who just wanted to say hi. I never thought it was some huge rude deal. Particularly if they say hi, spend a minute or two, and leave.
Sure, if it's someone I don't even know I can see myself thinking it's rude to interrupt my time with my date. If it was my room mate or someone I see regularly then I could see it as rude if it appeared I was having a date although I guess it still might depend on my relationship with them. *shrug* If it was someone I was friends with and hadn't seen in a while I'd hope they'd say hi. Perhaps my dates wouldn't think so but I'd hope any date of mine would be mature enough to handle a few minutes interruption for someone like that. I know I would be fine with that if my wife or past girlfriends wanted a few minutes to say hi to some guy they hadn't seen in years. Of course how it is handled could impact how uncomfortable I might feel so I'd certainly hope my date wouldn't forget me and keep in mind how I might be feeling. But in general I would not think it rude at all.